Tuesday, May 17, 2022

Catching My Breath

 Guys, it's been beyond insane since the last time I wrote.  My experiment with Podmatch took off with an unexpected intensity, and before I knew it, I was booked nearly every day with interviews. It took some tweaking of the online scheduling calendar, but I eventually figured out how to find more of a balance. I think. 

The result has been that I've increased to publishing 2 episodes a week, and I'm often several weeks ahead in the recording and editing process. I'm proud of my little passion project, Join the Conversation with Denise Clark.  I'm finishing up my 4th season, and I'm planning a bit of a publishing break for the summer.  I have interviews lined up, but I am not going to release them until August. I figure my audience needs a chance to catch up on content, and I need time to reflect on my next steps. 

On a family level, it's been a whirlwind. In April, we closed on a house that Gene & I have loved for years, but the time wasn't right. Quick backstory -- this house was in foreclosure & needed a LOT of work when we decided to buy the house on Loyalsock Ave.  While we loved our time in our "old new house," we wanted to grow our side business, Family Traditions RV Rentals, and we were out of space for parking. We started looking at houses in a "I wonder what's out there" kind of way, and guess what! The house we loved was back on the market -- renovated and beautiful! We decided to make an offer, knowing that if it was meant to be, it would happen.  And it did!

Gene has been hard at work, moving the fencing and expanding the parking opportunities at this house, and we've purchased another camper to add to our modest fleet. I should probably mention that the house has an indoor pool.  Yep, you read that right.  And who knew? It's Molly's favorite room in the house.  Not that she swims, mind you.  No, she's above that -- 


I am not kidding when I say we can't get in the pool without her wanting to be in one of her boats.  What a life, right?

In typical Clark fashion, we moved a few days before Gene & I chaperoned Aidan & E's marching band trip to Boston (and of course, we took Liam along!).  We left the house piled high with boxes and spent 4 days with amazing talented kids, exploring all the popular sites of Beantown -- from the Aquarium to Faneuil Hall (where the band performed) to a dinner cruise to opening day at Fenway Park. 



We returned, continued the moving process and signed our lives away on 2 house closings. What a restful spring break. ha! (I realize I have ZERO room to complain.  See above for photo of indoor pool.) 

May has been no different, honestly.  Aidan and his beautiful girlfriend went to his junior prom (and of course we hosted the after party.  It's sort of an obligation for the people with the aforementioned indoor pool). 

Aidan's been through a lot, too.  He discovered that not every mentor you have has your best interests at heart, and he learned what it's like to be taken advantage of at work. I was proud of the way he handled the situation -- calmly setting boundaries and speaking up for himself. He walked away from a toxic environment and is visibly happier (thinking the pretty girl on his arm has something to do with that, too!). He took the Defense Language Aptitude Battery and absolutely killed it. His score was phenomenal, and it's exciting to see what doors will open for him as he embarks on his career in the US Air Force -- NEXT year! He still has senior year with us, thank God! 

E has been excelling in her art courses and qualified for National Art Honor Society this year! She's been learning the tricky skill of balancing a part-time job with school work and a social life (one of her best friends lives next door now!). I can't believe we are at the end of her freshman year of high school. . . and that she's taking driver's ed this summer! Slow down, time!



"Little" Liam has discovered his musical side. He's growing so much as a soccer player, too, but it's been fun to see him in his first concerts, including one for an auditioned youth choir. 
We've also finally busted out the disc golf discs that Liam got for Christmas and tried the course right near our house.  So much fun!!  Looking forward to more of that, for sure! 

Oh, and somewhere in the midst of all that, I submitted my dissertation to my committee in preparation for my defense June 16. As for the next steps for my career, I'm seeking. I'm listening. I'm waiting. What's meant to be will happen.  It always does. 

And so, as we wrap up the school year, I am looking forward to simply catching my breath, processing all that has happened, reflecting on how to move on. I hope to write more often, but I know better than to make promises I'm not sure I can keep. 

All I can say is that I know I'm exactly where I'm meant to be, and that's more than enough. 





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